ill be married in 20 day
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Originally Posted by Hailey
Originally Posted by Rogue
It'* probably a little late in the game for this, but the best marriage advice I ever got was...
Don't marry a woman you can live with. Marry a woman you can't live without.
Don't marry a woman you can live with. Marry a woman you can't live without.
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Originally Posted by randman1
I'm getting married in May and you're right, time flies by. I've been engaged since 3/02. I figured that 2+ years would give me plenty of time to prepare for a wedding. It seems that no ammount of time is ever enough. Fortunately, the bride-to-be did most of the arrangements very early and all we have to do is just show up and enjoy. Good luck with everything!
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Originally Posted by L27Buick
i tryed to tell y dad something like what u said to do but he said its his day too becase his forst born son it getting married and blah blah. my dad like to use guilt trips to get his way they used to work on me till i grew up he still tryes but i just look past them.
We are to honor and respect our parents. I'm not saying to be disrespectful, but to lovingly, but firmly, let him know you and your bride'* to be'* plans and desires. It'* your call. Take a stand, or let him keep up the use of guilt to keep you under his control. Some parents don't learn to let go. It'* hard for them. Now, as a father, I think I can understand some of the grief as if you are losing your baby boy or girl. Others, are simply about control. It'* this situation that can get a bit rough, but you must, as the man of your house to be, be strong for your family without being dishonorable in your actions. That would make you just as wrong.
Hey, it'* just my opinion. I just hope your day is special and your future is blessed.
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