Well in all fairness, I'm close to my own place...but I don't have it yet. Women are a touchy subject. I have been told that I lack killer instinct...whatever that means. However, I have never dated seriously or been married, so my ability to understand your situation is very limited

sorry for bringing this up again. this is my last message here.

Just do what my buddy did, when he split with his gf of 4 years and found out who she ended up with...he took up knife fighting, tae-boxing, stick fighting, ju-jitzu trains a hell of a lot, went to University for software engineering has a great internship job and has more girls then he can shake a stick at....literally.

The point being...you need to distract yourself with activities. Work on the car, go play a game, go for a run, take up tae boxing whatever...I wish I could, but I work 45 hrs a week...lol

After every page, life will give you another page to keep writing

Put yourself around people. Best thing you can do. And do what you want to do, not what you need to do to be around people, or what they want you to do.

Dude it will take awhile to get over it.....have been there.....done it.......
Ya gotta give that wacko the FOR GOOD! she is destroying yer life..
There are plenty of sane, stable woman out there that will make your life enjoyable.....put the past behind you and keep it there.....live for the future........

read this.....and heed it....and hope it helps....

DON"T LOOK BACK

As you travel through life there are always those times when decisions just have to be made; when the choices are hard, and solutions seem scarce and the rain seems to soak your parade.

There are some situations where all you can do is to simply let go and move on, gather courage together and choose a direction that carries you toward a new dawn.

So pack up your troubles and take a step forward. The process of change can be tough but think about all the excitement ahead if you can be stalwart enough!

There could be adventures you never imagined just waiting around the next bend and wishes and dreams just about to come true in ways you can't yet comprehend!

Perhaps you'll find friendships that spring from new interests as you challenge your status quo and learn there are so many options in life, and so many ways you can grow!

Perhaps you'll go places you never expected and see things that you've never seen or travel to fabulous, faraway worlds and wonderful spots in between!

Perhaps you'll find warmth and affection and caring- a "somebody special" who'* there to help you stay centered and listen with interest to stories and feelings you share.

Perhaps you'll find comfort in knowing your friends are supportive of all that you do and believe that whatever decisions you make, they'll be the right choices for you!

So keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking your life day by day.
There'* a brighter tomorrow that'* just down the road.
So..... Don't look back! .....You're not going that way!

~by Jan Miller Girando~