I just dont have it
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
DON'T SWEAT THE PETTY THINGS AND DON'T PET THE SWEATY THINGS.
Maybe the biggest thing is to stop dwelling on it and stop feeling so sorry for yourself.
You don't need someone else to complete you, you should be fine with yourself, someone else is just the whipped topping on the sundae. Even the most confident, best looking and otherwise pretty darn perfect of us go through some (at times long) spells without having a signifcant other.
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YEA STEVE JUST CHILL OUT THERE IS PLENTY OF WOMEN AROUND HERE I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT CAUSE I PROABLY DATED OVER 20% OF THEM IN THE STATE OF ILLINOIS
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YEA STEVE JUST CHILL OUT THERE IS PLENTY OF WOMEN AROUND HERE I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT CAUSE I PROABLY DATED OVER 20% OF THEM IN THE STATE OF ILLINOIS
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5 percent of communication is verbal, 95 is body language.
1) Get out and meet them (phone calls are ok but not the best)
2) If your serious about this, have someone videotape you at a party or talking to a girl, then analyze your body language. Do you have nervous tells? Do you act sullen and withdrawn? Do you stand behind friends at parties? Project yourself the way you want to be treated and seen and you would be surprised what happens. Women dig confidence more than anything (even if they wont tell you). Some women will tell you that they like the small little puppy dog types but they just view that as a project to build them up. I was very shy in school and didnt start dating until I was 20 or so.
3) Go out with a lot of women (not sleep with, go out with). Even if you dont think they are a potential mate. This will help build up experiances that you can use later in life to make your final choice.
1) Get out and meet them (phone calls are ok but not the best)
2) If your serious about this, have someone videotape you at a party or talking to a girl, then analyze your body language. Do you have nervous tells? Do you act sullen and withdrawn? Do you stand behind friends at parties? Project yourself the way you want to be treated and seen and you would be surprised what happens. Women dig confidence more than anything (even if they wont tell you). Some women will tell you that they like the small little puppy dog types but they just view that as a project to build them up. I was very shy in school and didnt start dating until I was 20 or so.
3) Go out with a lot of women (not sleep with, go out with). Even if you dont think they are a potential mate. This will help build up experiances that you can use later in life to make your final choice.
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Originally Posted by BonneMeMN
Originally Posted by Kennginn
YEA STEVE JUST CHILL OUT THERE IS PLENTY OF WOMEN AROUND HERE I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT CAUSE I PROABLY DATED OVER 20% OF THEM IN THE STATE OF ILLINOIS
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Originally Posted by Kennginn
Originally Posted by BonneMeMN
Originally Posted by Kennginn
YEA STEVE JUST CHILL OUT THERE IS PLENTY OF WOMEN AROUND HERE I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT CAUSE I PROABLY DATED OVER 20% OF THEM IN THE STATE OF ILLINOIS
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Ok, here'* how u get women,.......you get good ole Jimbo to teach ya,..cause remember now,.. He'* the resident studmuffin of the BC! Hey, that'* not my quote. I got rules about dating people w/ as much or more hair than me.
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The best relationship youll have will be with a woman that is your best friend. And last time I recalled, not too many people overdo it when trying to become friends, so just relax. I know how hard it can be and all this advice must mean jack $hit to you since you wont listen to any of it, you just needed to vent.
Youll suddenly realize what is going on, and youll figure it out for yourself. Good luck! :o
Youll suddenly realize what is going on, and youll figure it out for yourself. Good luck! :o