Reason being, the girl I got off the phone with like and hour ago and only spoke for 2 mins. I really like this person but its hard for me to opedn up to her because I just met her. She is the one if you remember that I went to the laundromat with. I guess the conversation that was going on today was what messed me up. We saw each other yesterday but it was because she had some business to take care of. I was just hppy that she called me and I helped her out. Today i called her and she was always wondering why I was quiet after so long? I told her that I was nervous. She said"On the phone? Normally people be nervous in person." I said" No i guess I just don't want to say the wrong thing to u", then her other line beeps. She clicks back over to me and we talk for just a little bit when I asked her if she was busy this wekend. She said that she has plans. I was like shocked. She did just break up with her bioyfriend and I was trying to take things slow but i guess I might not be good enough to take her out. I even asked if she was washing because she did mention that and if she wanted company, she says her cousin is going with her. But she did say she will call me if I do talk. She was serious when she said that and I am really quiet on the phone. Shy and everything else. I hate this starting over thing. I will never know who is out there for me if I can't even feel to either speak to someone or find someone patient enough to deal with me. Now I can't even sleep. I feel worse than when my ex-wife told me she don't want to be with me anymore.

Dude, you went to the laundrymat, she'* seen you're dirt skivvies, and still talks to you. You've got a chance. But it may be too soon for her. Play it cool for a bit and see what happens..

Take her for a hot date in the bonnie. Find something that you two an talk about that has nothign to do with "the two of you".

The sleep part is easy. Since you don't drink, get a running start, and go head first into the wall next to your bed. If you plan it right, you'll wake up on your bed in the morning.

Dood.....she didn't slam the door in your face. She left it open just a crack

She wanted me to go with her to wash her clothes 3 weeks ago and I went. She has plans this weekend so taking her out is out of the question. I look at that passenger side and I am tired of it being empty all the time. Maybe I am ugly or something.

Nah, you're a good man. Just be yourself. Bite the bullet, i did earlier this week, and it was the best time all year, even if nothing comes from it, it was nice having those butterflies in my stomach, first time since high school.

It'll get better. Women can be bitchy sometimes.... Wish there was some way I could cheer you up.

--Christine :?

Jason, if you'd quit eating bugs, girls would like you more....

And my dear John, if you'd show up to a meet, you'd get an LED keychain.

You're point?

Hey man theres no reason to start kickin your own ***. The best things in life come when you least expect em.