*sigh* relationship (to-be) help
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*sigh* relationship (to-be) help
Ok, for some reason, these things usually come easy to me. You get to know the girl, you get to know her friends, wait a couple months and ask her out, but I don't know her that well or anyone around her. I bet she doesn't even know I exist. My problem is that I've lost all confidence in myself, haha. I can't get the nerve to even ask her a question, let alone on a date. She'* quite popular in her clique, but I never see her with any guys. I know she'* not seeing someone (thank you, facebook, lmao), and I know she'* looking. So, my question is, what do I do? How should I approach this? Should I try to sweep her off her feet or play it cool and befriend her? I just don't know where to start, haha; I've never been in a place like this where I don't know half the people here.
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The sweeping off the feet thing is hollywood.
Atleast start talking to her. I mean you can ask her to go to lunch or dinner without dating her.
Atleast start talking to her. I mean you can ask her to go to lunch or dinner without dating her.
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Originally Posted by corvettecrazy
Atleast start talking to her. I mean you can ask her to go to lunch or dinner without dating her.
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Originally Posted by petraman
Originally Posted by corvettecrazy
Atleast start talking to her. I mean you can ask her to go to lunch or dinner without dating her.
But seriously, If that first move isn't made, you already know the outcome.
Just cowboy up and talk to her to make sure she'* all shes cracked up to be. You may be pleasantly surprised or disappointed.
(Easier said than done, I know, but it'* one of the few ways)
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Originally Posted by Puddy46
But seriously, If that first move isn't made, you already know the outcome.
Just cowboy up and talk to her to make sure she'* all shes cracked up to be. You may be pleasantly surprised or disappointed.
(Easier said than done, I know, but it'* one of the few ways)
Just cowboy up and talk to her to make sure she'* all shes cracked up to be. You may be pleasantly surprised or disappointed.
(Easier said than done, I know, but it'* one of the few ways)
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Just grow a pair and walk up to her. If she doesn't like you then she doesn't. Plain and simple, it just means you were overshooting a bit
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Originally Posted by petraman
Originally Posted by Puddy46
But seriously, If that first move isn't made, you already know the outcome.
Just cowboy up and talk to her to make sure she'* all shes cracked up to be. You may be pleasantly surprised or disappointed.
(Easier said than done, I know, but it'* one of the few ways)
Just cowboy up and talk to her to make sure she'* all shes cracked up to be. You may be pleasantly surprised or disappointed.
(Easier said than done, I know, but it'* one of the few ways)
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Originally Posted by fuelforthesoul1999
Just grow a pair and walk up to her. If she doesn't like you then she doesn't. Plain and simple, it just means you were overshooting a bit